Staying in the game: The best practices, attitudes, metacognitive strategies, and intrinsic motivations of aging musicians
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Why do we play music nobody likes?

10/3/2021

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Why do we play music "nobody" likes?

Many styles of music are of a minority interest. Especially if your musical interest originates from a country, era, or culture different than your own. 

​Hanging out and posting online only goes so far.

So why do we persist swinging, shuffling, rocking and improvising decades after demise of these once popular forms in tiny rooms to tiny audiences? We are hardly making art with a capital A. We are essentially paying homage to something that already exists. Yet we continue.

So why? 

Good question.
  • Love?
  • Habit?
  • Laziness?
  • Fellowship?
  • Inertia?
  • An act of homage?
  • Curiosity?
  • Professional obligation?

I think there is a bit of all the above in myself. 

David  
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Goal setting for seniors 70+

8/6/2021

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"To everything there is a season". Sage words. But perhaps a bit self limiting if taken too literally.

Here are some seniors, of my acquaintance, who inspire me.

1. Heather, now preparing for her Grade 2 violin exam. Yesterday she shopped for a violin upgrade.
2. Gary, now running his own weekly jazz jam session with his new found pals.
3. Glen, recently performing online with musicians and dancers from 2 European Countries. Today I found him practicing the piccolo.
4. Eleanor, writing music for her website for her fans around the world.

I say, don't sell yourself short.

David.
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Staying creative and engaged as we age. Some thoughts on staying in the game.

7/31/2021

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​It won't be easy. Going stale, losing interest in things, aging out, and other maladies are well known and well documented in aging adults. What can one do to stay in the game?

1. Stay fit or get fit. Creativity takes energy. Fight like hell to stay upright. But work with what you've got. Your high school track days are over. Accept this gracefully and with your doctor's advice, get to the gym.
2. Stay connected. Friends matter. Who you hang with matters even more. Are the folks in your orbit "in the game" or are they lazy, burned out, narrow minded, and in denial of reality? If they are, I'd make a move.
3. Take on new challenges. Start with your tech. Learn to use your phone, tablet, and laptop like a pro. It's not hard, start on YouTube and get busy. Working with senior adults who can't do even simple tasks is heartbreaking to see as a teacher. Tech literacy is a real thing. Incompetency with your gadgets is an impediment to being creative, connecting with other creatives, and just participating in modern life.
4. Learn something new. Take some lessons on your instrument, go all in. Learn a new instrument even. I'm working with a bass teacher this summer learning the basics of Country music bass lines in the music of the 1950s and 60s. My appreciation of that period of American music has grown. I hear it with fresh ears. 
5. Do something new. I'm deep in the breakfast piano minute series.  I've been creating 1 minute daily postings. It's been fun. It is leading to lots of new connections, and it  encourages some daily creative effort. I've learned about camera lighting, video editing, and much more. And folks like them. I've a new and growing audience on social media. 

If I can help you find some new creative activities, call me. 

​David

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​Aging bodies and musicians.

7/10/2021

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I’ve an aging body. Accommodations will have to be made. If you are reading this, you are likely in the same boat. Here is what was recommended by the physiotherapist recently.
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  1. During the summer lull, rest and let the body repair. More sleep.
  2. Leave more time in the schedule to move and stretch between lessons.
  3. Walk, walk, walk. This low impact sport will help reduce the Covid tummy bulge.
  4. Space out the practicing.
  5. No pounding on the electric drum kit.
  6. Strengthening exercises for the core to reduce or eliminate soreness and inflammation in the arms.
  7. Heating pads on the affected muscles.
  8. Keep walking.
  9. Less computer typing time, use the tablet with the stylus when ever possible.
  10. Rearrange, once again, my workspace. I’ve another year of online teaching ahead, time to prepare.
  I suggest some further reading. 
David
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Finding a mentor half your age

6/6/2021

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I'm 62 years old. How do I stay in the game?

I found a mentor half my age. He keeps me humble, focused, and challenged. I figure he'll help stave off old fartum by at least a decade. He points out my blind spots and introduces me to new areas to explore, new points of view, and new ways to execute my musical ideas. It is all very exciting. 

What about you?
Who can you reach out to?

David
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Staying engaged by making art

5/28/2021

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One way to stay engaged is just to do it. Quick and short. Put it up there, see what sticks. 

​David
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Learning in 2021. "Is there an easier way?"

5/26/2021

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"Everyone used to learn by trial and error, we all had our own slightly wrong ways of doing things"
This may have cut it in the past. But not today. Engage a teacher, take a course, find some humility. The competition is fiercer that ever. Nothing is worse as an aging musician that not to know you don't know. 

​Cheers, 

David
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Building our confidence in the time of Covid-19

4/4/2021

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Ari Hoenig, jazz drummer
  1. "I'm getting better, and very soon I will be better and completely at the top of my game".
  2. "How do you get confidence? Be good, dammit. You know what I mean? But that is not easy to do."
Nick Ruffini, Drummer's Resource 
  1. "Confidence comes from keeping your promises to yourself. "
Five ways to improve your musical confidence. 
  1. Get a teacher. Our heroes are free and sitting at home. Reach out, they need love, we need help.
  2. Set and keep a practice schedule. This damn pandemic will soon be over. Be ready. 
  3. Get off the couch and out the door. Walk, bike, workout in a safe manner to stay upright and sharp. 
  4. Make a dream list of musical experiences you'd like to have in the next decade. 
  5. Get a good night's sleep. If you have been putting off getting a cpap machine, suck it up, reach out and get one. It will change your life. 

David



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Controlling Mental Inputs

3/15/2021

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We live large in the catastrophic click bait age. It's only going to get worse. Count on it. Louder and shriller.

So, how do we turn off without turning inward?

I haven't the friggin' foggiest idea. 

​David

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The death of imagination in aging adults

3/14/2021

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An ever-present danger. Giving up, settling early. This past year has been unprecedented. Most people have been inconvenienced. Some though have been deeply affected by job loss, illness, or death.

Assuming you are in the first group and not the second how do we proceed and stay engaged in a world of imagination and action?
  1. Take steps to stay healthy. You know the drill. Find an accountability partner. Mine is my wife.
  2. Practice your instrument, address shortcomings during this lull. I meet twice monthly with my classical piano coach. Prior to that with a jazz coach.
  3. Take some online classes with a younger musician. Engage with another perspective. I meet my drum coach twice weekly. It’s been fantastic. A reason to practice and stay sharp. Embarrassing myself in front of a musician half my age is unthinkable.
  4. Network like crazy, this won’t last forever. I believe that the post-pandemic world will explode in creative activity and opportunities. It is time to prepare. I recently played piano for an online big band performance. It will be posted soon.
  5. Complete a new certification if your area of music provides those opportunities. I’m completing my online teaching certification with the Royal Conservatory of Music here in Canada.
  6. Create projects that work online. I’ve had the privilege of working on new works with Fade/Dissolve cinematic noise trio. What a blast.
  7. Dream of a musical future and prepare to meet it head on. 
David

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